I had an inkling he watched porn, but had no clue as to the frequency (daily he was even bunking off work and watching it in public loos). When I confronted him he confessed he visited a gay sauna on four occasions while I was pregnant and started emailing a man he met there. He said he has been addicted to pornography for over a decade (long before we met) and this had been making him have urges he had difficultly controlling. Six weeks ago I discovered that my husband has been chatting to men online via Gaydar and other similar sites, and emailing one man in particular. The dilemma I am a 38-year-old woman, married for three years, with three children under the age of four.
